Sunday, July 22, 2012

The Man List

“You can't ask for what you want unless you know what it is. A lot of people don't know what they want or they want much less than they deserve. First you have figure out what you want. Second, you have to decide that you deserve it. Third, you have to believe you can get it. And, fourth, YOU HAVE TO HAVE THE GUTS TO ASK FOR IT.” -Barbara De Angelis

Gotta Have
  • Education- bachelor degree
  • Family focus- babies perhaps
  • Gospel knowledge
  • Testimony and love of the scriptures
  • Current Temple Recommend
  • A handle on money:  savings account, lives within means, knows difference between needs and wants, has a $ plan of the future, has a retirement. 
  • Knows how to solve problems 
  • Loves all animals, especially dogs. 
  • Commandment keeper 
  • Understand and lives section 121 
  • Desire for Righteousness- to follow the Savior and be faithful to the gospel at all costs. 

Needs to Have
  • Social skills, 
  • Clean mouth
  • Listening skills 
  • A good job
  • Lets me read and study 
  • Lets me do the things I enjoy doing
  • Encourages me to develop my talents, helps me to be better. 
  • Kindness  
  • Honesty to himself and others about who he is and where he is at in life
  • Maturity- not worried about his body, being cool, what others think about him, but about eternal things. 
  • Sense of humor, makes me laugh 
  • Knows how to make decisions, receive revelation and follow through regardless of how difficult it is.

Would be Nice 
  • Fix it and built it skills
  • A home he owns
  • No debt 
  • Likes to travel 
  • musical- piano, singing? 

Deal Breakers 
  • Intense anger
  • Throwing, breaking things 
  • Easily offended 
  • Can't take the truth 
  • Manipulative
  • Reviles back
  • Will not turn the other cheek
  • Addictions. 
  • Controlling